Wednesday 30 November 2011

From artisans around the world to Brussels


The more I work in the aid business, the more I cannot help thinking that whilst increased aid is an important goal for the international community, what could make the real difference on the ground is trade. Allright I am not reinventing the wheel or anything here.... But just because I am saying something obvious it doesn't mean it is easy to reach.

Have a look at North-South trade flows and you will see what I mean. I am not evening thinking whether the terms of trade are fair or not, I am just reflecting on the quantity. Or lack of it.

That is why I think at some point in life I should seriously start my own business and try to bring together craftsmen from the so-called Global South (for those of you working in other sector that is how nowadays in the NGO world we refer to developing countries) into Western markets, in an effort to increase the trade flows between Northern and Southern hemispheres and to preserve old fashioned techniques.

Every time I travel outside the industrial world, I cannot help but think how many beautiful things human beings can do. From every day objects to fabrics and art pieces, I love to collect pretty much everything I can find in a market.

That is one of the reason why I am a big fan of Emery & cie. Agnes Emery is a Brussels born architect who sells a wide range of beautiful products -from tiles to furniture- completely hand made  in low or middle income countries. Not only she fosters local economies, she also defends a production method that is in danger of becoming extinct.

If you find yourself in downtown Brussels, you should definitely pay a visit to her shop, which looks like a home turn into an art gallery.

All photos via Emery & cie

Monday 28 November 2011

New Chocolate Maestro in Sablon

Le Sablon tremble? Looks like the best Parisian chocolatier decided to shake the status quo in downtown Brussels by opening up last week his first shop abroad, a couple of meters from Marcolini, Godiva and Neuhaus....

And what a shop! The less one can say is that Patrick's choice for sumptuousness can olny cheers us up in a time of financial crisis.


True is, the place is beautiful and the chocolate divine. I got carried away by CORSICA, essence of orange rind, ALLEGORIE, caramelized almonds-oranges-raisins and last but not least AMITIE delight of almond praliné.

So I cannot help wondering: will our new friend Patrick make us forget about Belgian chocolate?

Patrick Roger
43 Place du Grand Sablon
Bruxelles
www.patrickroger.com/   
(PS you should really check out his website)

All photos by Bruxpat including the one of Patrick in his shop last Saturday while welcoming his clients
   



Sunday 27 November 2011

Relationship Break Ups

Break ups suck. In a planet of 7 billion + people this is one of those commonly shared undertakings that any living person experience at some point or another in life. I bet you have been there too. It's a marvel to think we are all in the same boat...
They say break up is one of the most common social stressor in adult life, though some of us started already in first grade. Yours truly experience dates back to good old teenage time and ever since I have collected some pretty unorthodox stories on the subject. The best of all them was when my Basque boyfriend of the time bothered to dump me on the phone lecturing me on how his shrink explained him that intimate relationships harm the search of self - whatever that meant.  So while he hung up to look for his super ego, he left me dealing with my destroyed ego. How sensible of him.

In my family we have a good-track record of megalomaniac divorces. They all involved, to different degrees, hire expensive private detectives, even more expensive lawyers, sudden change door locks, stealing credit card bills and mobile phones in search for proves, fights for properties, children, pets and everything else including that old plate that nobody would like to keep in normal circumstances. Most of those behaviors were hysteric and in retrospective I tend to doubt about their legality. 

Once my mum was even called to testify in front of the Sacred Roman Rota, the highest tribunal of the Roman Catholic Church , in a legal procedure aiming at declaring one of our family members' marriage null and void. I wasn't asked to testify as my family thought that my poor relationship with God would have mislead the judge. What a pity. 

Those dramas usually involved the whole extended family, friends and neighbors (poor them, they usually witnessed the worst) - I guess you have this compulsive necessity to air your dirty laundry with the rest of the world if you come from Southern Europe. So as I grew up, the War of the Roses didn't seem to me such a bitter divorce after all. 

Ultimately the most unbelievable stories come always from my expat friends. If Carry Bradshaw was dumped with a post it, my friends experienced some of the following:
1) Being asked for a divorce in a e-mail (Subject: a wife's duty)
2) Discover your husband, father of your 4 sons, for whom you have been paying the bills for a decade, is cheating on you with a 20 something Asian friend.
3) Being left with a "it's over" text, on the day of your birthday
4) Discover your girlfriend is leaving you for your roommate and best friend. 
5) Being told your sexual performances do not fulfill an average woman's needs.
6) Realizing you are not in a relationship anymore when your calls/emails/texts are not returned and the concierge is refusing allowing you in the building -even just to ask for an explanation (Madam you are persona non grata)
7) Leaving your country and moving to a tiny village in the Flanders with your teenager daughter just to be told after 2 months that this relationship is not gonna work.

So as I said at the beginning, break ups suck and they make me sick. If you are currently experiencing this, I have no recommendations but a whole lot of empathy. Someone once told me that love is not a communicable disease and no, you are not gonna die for it. Yes...you tell my friends....

Photo via google image

Saturday 26 November 2011

Cuisine d'Auteur

I am intimately convinced that Brussels is not sufficiently well known to the outside world for its large range of high level restaurants. I always become grumpy when people get surprised of the offer and quality we enjoy around here.

My favorite restaurant is Greek and is called Notos. Forget moussaka, I am talking of fine cuisine which mix flavors of the Mediterranean islands. It brings Greek food to the next level. Gosh, I would love to cook like that!

Since I first discovered it, I had dinner at Notos at least a dozen of times. Still, I just can't get enough....Last year I brought there my dad, who is well known for being (beyond) difficult when it comes to restaurants. Well...he said it was a "unique experience" and every time he comes back this is the only place where he wants to eat out. 

My very favorite picks are (in random order): the salade de poulpe, the assiette variée de la mer (crème de tarama, poulpe mariné, thon fumé, bar au citron, saumon fumé, Noix de coquilles St. Jacques) and the wine Gris de Noir d’Antonopoulos 2007 (honestly I think I could easily drink it all day long.....)

Recently I discovered that the chef and owner, Constantin Erinkoglou, is a fellow College of Europe student who at some point decided he had enough with its Eurocrat life and took a completely different path by opening Notos. True story, they say! 

You can bet I will ask him next time. What a star this Constantin!

Notos
Rue de Livourne, 154
1000 Brussels


Photo via Sensum

My favorite shop in Brux

Bonsoir lovelies! I'd like to share something special with you: my favorite shop ever in Brussels!  

Anytime I look for inspiration, harmony, beauty (or anytime I actually need to buy a piece of furniture) I visit Michel Lambrecht's antiquity shop, at a stone throw from the Sablon.

This place is truly an Ali Baba's cave for beautiful things, specialized in antique, eclectic lighting and furniture. The palette of color is calm and relaxing and you get an amazing choice of styles and objects. 

The Flemish owner is highly professional. He has an exquisite taste and believe me, he has always the right tips for everyone. Plus, it makes delicious coffee! 

I discovered his shop was also suggested in the Brussels Wallpaper - where it says he collaborated with Olga Polizzi from the Rocco Forte chain (Hotel Amigo). 

I do not know about you, but having a pleasant home is pretty important in my life. I do enjoy after a long working day to find myself surrounded by beautiful things. If you share this feeling, then have a look at it:
Rue Watteau, 18 
B-1000, Brussels
(it is opened on Sundays too!)


PS If you are a really good client, you get to visit his secret shop....

All photos via Michel Lambrecht

Cuban Rhythm in the Fiords


By guest blogger John Drink Doe.

“A drink is just a drink… a bit of alcohol to alleviate the pain of the daily life.” If this is what you expect from an aperitif after an intense day at work, this is blog is NOT for you.  On the contrary, if a drink is a cozy interlude to share your quest for taste with friends, then you may be on the right path towards bar heaven." 


Walking downtown Brussels is always a pleasant experience. The rectangular gothic of the Grand Place brings you back to the old splendor of the city and very lively alleys around offer you a wide choice of bars. Should you feel for something different than beer and wine, here the cocktail universe is ready to embrace you in all its dimensions. And if you are the type who orders lobster in Alaska and deer in Sharm el Sheikh… well also your unusual habits can be satisfied.
Few hundred meters away from the Grand Place, in Rue de Fosse aux Loups 47, the Radisson Blue Hotel hosts the Bar Dessiné. Honoring the Belgium comics traditions with thematic decorations, this bar offers a good selection of international cocktails, but probably gives its best in the preparation of Mojitos and rum based drinks. Enjoy your nightcap and take it easy.
Do not miss the next drink!!
John Drink Doe is a blogger for Bruxpat. He is young enough to remember the 80s and old enough to enjoy Lady Gaga. He shares his life with two wonderful Scandinavian girls: the one he married and the one born 3 years ago. When he does not spend tenths of hours working in one of the Buildings in Schuman, he enjoys  exploring urban jungles around the planet and writing thriller novels.

Photo by John Drink Doe 

United in Diversity


By guest blogger LaFritte.

Sometimes discussions about Europe are like Russian dolls. The dolls get smaller and smaller but they are still the same dolls and you wonder when it will be the last one. Equally you can find Europe’s microcosm mirrored in many places, sometimes in places you didn’t really expect.

For example at our monthly company staff meeting two weeks ago. On the agenda: the use of our online signatures. Maria, our newly elected Spanish communication officer, saw it as her first duty to harmonize the corporate signature and bring order into our multicultural chaos.

“This is how it looks like at the moment” she showed a PowerPoint slide frowning her forefront. “A total anarchy of signatures! Some put their full title with their full name, others put Mr, Ms or Mrs in front and then the full name but without their complete job title, others use the company name in full form, others just the abbreviation. To be short it’s a mess. This has to change. From now on everybody will use the same signature!”

Proudly she showed a template of her newly created Master signature. “It’s better for the external image, people will know who they are dealing with and… we will follow the same rules ONCE and for ALL !"

The crowd around the round table was glued to the screen. “But isn’t it a discrimination if the receiver knows that the mail comes from a woman or a man? “ Why discriminatory, doesn’t it make things easier?!!” Maria exclaimed.
“No” someone raised her voice.
“I don’t necessarily want to let people know that I am a woman”
“ Are you scared they will hit on you or what?” People started giggling.
“I would prefer the new signature without the Mr but with the logo and without the full name of the company, it takes up too much space in my e-mails.”
“There shouldn’t be a different treatment of the sexes”
“ I agree”. People mumbled.
“ Actually nobody in Anglophone countries puts Mr or Mrs in front of their name” our only British colleague raised his voice.
“ Ah really ??”
“ Yes, it’s very uncommon".
“You see! Besides, I don’t want to let people know if I am a Ms or Mrs, it has nothing to do with my work. It’s private and simply unprofessional!”

Maria who had started a very innocent proposal to give a unified image to our signatures, was suddenly confronted with imminent hostility and resistance from all sides. 

“Can I make a suggestion..”The chattering room went silent. Our boss sighed, put his hands together and took an air of an army general planning his next war strategy. 

“Why shouldn’t we first make a survey about the cultural practices around Europe and evaluate the result by the Communication department before committing ourselves to anything? I mean it’s a sensitive issue, in the meantime everybody continues to use the signature he or she has used before”.

Agreed nodding. After having lost 45 minutes on this ‘burning issue’ we were now able to get back to less important matters, like our position on the European debt crisis or if we should sack one of our Greek company members.

This is what “ Europe- United in Diversity” really means I thought. Nothing changes because everybody just continues with the usual mess, but somehow it works anyway.

LaFritte is a blogger for Bruxpat. Conceived somewhere in the East-south, born somewhere in Eastern Europe, raised in the middle of Central Europe, she stranded on the Western shore of this continent a couple of years ago. She loves Belgian imperfections, the fact that everybody seem to be permanently stuck in an identity crisis, creative chaos and the rare sunny spells that occasionally fall on this country.  When this happens Brussels transforms itself completely turning into one of the most vibrant places - which reminds her why she is still living here.

Expo miniatures flamandes


By  guest blogger The Chained Servant.
J’ai toujours aimé les livres. L’objet, quelque soit le format, a toujours exercé une sorte de fascination chez moi. En même temps, le dessin m’a toujours plu et le must pour moi quand j’étais plus jeune, c’était la bande dessinée. C’est là où j’ai finalement appris à prendre du plaisir dans la lecture, à voyager dans les montagnes de Transylvanie, à chasser les indiens avec le caporal Blutch ou encore tomber dans les tréfonds de la cité-puits avec John Difool. Quelques années plus tard, quand je suis finalement passé à autre chose et que j’ai découvert que nos lointains aïeux, avant même Hergé, Moebius ou Christophe Blain, mettaient des dessins pour accompagner des textes dans des livres, dans un art qu’on nommait celui de la miniature, cela m’a d’abord intrigué puis franchement passionné. 
L’exposition sur les miniatures flamandes, qui se tient en ce moment à la Bibliothèque Royale de Belgique, avait donc tout pour m’attirer. Une fois l’entrée trouvée (ce qui ne fut pas simple dans mon cas, pauvre bruxpat que je suis) les centaines de pièces exposées dans une religieuse obscurité font prendre conscience au visiteur à quel point le livre, objet commun, voire technologiquement dépassé aujourd’hui, était sacré il y a plusieurs siècles au moment où il est apparu! 

En fait, et c’est là l’un des principaux mérites de cette exposition, on ne montre pas que des ouvrages anciens mais on explique aussi longuement au visiteur les nombreuses étapes et les corps de métier que nécessitaient la fabrication d’un manuscrit au 14ème siècle. Salles après salles, on comprend mieux la patience dont devaient s’armer copistes, relieurs, parcheminiers ou miniaturistes. Et, à ma grande surprise, les thèmes ne sont pas nécessairement toujours religieux, l’art du livre s’étant progressivement sécularisé : des personnages tout droit sortis de comtes populaires commencent à faire leur apparition, des bêtes curieuses, velues et crochues, probablement des ancêtres du marsupilami, se glissent dans les marges, et une scène cocasse, se laisse parfois découvrir, à qui sait jeter un œil curieux dans le dédale des motifs floraux et autres dorures. Les illustrations d’un roman de chevalerie, par exemple, étonnent par leur côté moderne et comique, voire coquin : un type regarde une nana par un trou dans un mur se déshabiller, après il se fait tabasser par son rival… bref, rien de forcément complètement désuet.
En fait, si le livre était sacré en ces temps reculés, c’est moins pour son contenu que parce qu’il était unique et difficile à fabriquer, il était donc coûteux, très coûteux ! C’est pourquoi on nous explique qu’au début, seuls les princes  pouvaient se constituer des bibliothèques, ils en commandaient l’histoire, engageaient les artisans et artistes qui réaliseraient le manuscrit, une fois terminé, ils se faisaient livrer l’objet directement par l’enlumineur qui lui tendait respectueusement et à genoux le fruit de son labeur (ca a plus de gueule qu’une livraison d’Amazon), le payaient une bonne grosse poignée de talents-or et collectionnaient le tout pour leur petit plaisir personnel. On les imagine potasser jalousement leurs ouvrages, tranquillement assis au coin du feu, dans leurs sublimes salons de lecture. La classe ! Depuis, les choses ont un peu changé, la présence de livres électroniques dans les vitrines de l’exposition, au côté de leurs ancêtres est là pour nous le rappeler. Ces petits écrans digitaux donnent de bien utiles explications, dommage que l’on ne puisse les manipuler et en tourner les pages soi même. 

Celles ci changent toutes les trente secondes environ, et on lit bien souvent la fin des légendes avant le début, bref, le voisinage de livres du 21ème et du 14ème siècles est plutôt savoureux mais pas exactement commode. L’autre particularité, c’est que la deuxième salle de l’exposition est située à l’extrémité du bâtiment, très loin de la première, si loin que des petits pas autocollants, posés au sol, guident le visiteur dans les longs couloirs, très fifties, de la Bibliothèque Royale.  L’exposition se transforme alors en quête.
Quand on découvre finalement la deuxième partie de l’expo, on est d’abord un peu déçu. Moins généreuse en explications et avec une lumière un peu cruelle pour les œuvres exposées, elle se révèle pourtant très complémentaire de la première salle. Ici, pas de livre électronique, pas de film, juste des manuscrits ouverts sur de magnifiques pages illustrées, parfois sublimes, juste de quoi s’abandonner dans une contemplation silencieuse.  A force de contempler d’ailleurs, je me suis soudain rendu compte que les textes étaient tout simplement écrits dans ma langue natale, mais dans un français du Moyen Age usant d’une calligraphie tellement ornementée et délicate que je parvenais à peine à saisir quelques mots, quelques phrases. C’est dommage car le roman de chevalerie avait l’air vraiment cocasse : rédigé dans une  langue si familière et pourtant si lointaine, il fourmillait d’expressions fleuries et mystérieuses, surtout pour un pauvre lecteur inculte d’aujourd’hui, tel que moi.
Quand je suis sorti finalement, après deux heures passionnantes et quelques dixièmes d’acuité visuelle en moins, je suis allé m’acheter un bouquin à la librairie Tropismes. Dedans, il n’y avait pas de dessin mais sous le code barre, il y avait écrit le prix : 20 euros, le numéro de série : 710345 et la date d’impression : 2010. Pas sûr qu’un prince du 14ème siècle l’aurait rangé dans sa bibliothèque privée… mais moi, en lecteur-manant du 21ème siècle, oui !
The Chain Servant is a blogger for Bruxpat. He has just moved to Brussels. When he is not busy wondering how to escape from his new work at the European Commission, he enjoys reading, cooking and above all cleaning.

Brussels Bacteria

By guest blogger LaFritte.

Brussels. NO. NEVER. NEVER ever in a Million …
That’s what I was thinking as a ten year old on my first visit to Belgium. It was raining cats and dogs during the whole bloody week I stayed at my uncle’s place in Namur, my shoes, trousers, just everything got soaked wet and not enough I got sick from the crème fraîche in the Leonidas pralines that my uncle and aunt had offered me. I swore would never lay my feet again on this country that made me vomit and freeze in the middle of August.
 
No. NOT again. …Remember the weather, no…
That was when I was 21 and saw an advertisement at my local university to go studying in Belgium.
I went.

No, Belgium AGAIN???!!!! Really?
Well… why not?
That’s when I came again 8 years later and …STAYED.

A strange destiny seems to have me linked up with this country or putting it less romantic, a simple necessity to escape my home city I had grown fed up with. Change is always good and the truth is Brussels is changing all the time.

Many are oscillating between Love and Hate for Brussels, never sure if they are waiting in a corridor for something better to come or slowly becoming a fabric of the city itself.

But beware it’s a trick. The longer you stay the more you’re likely to be stuck here, unable to leave, not WANTING to leave. Brussels gives home for the homeless, for those species of Europeans who are not easily to be integrated anywhere else anymore, those Italians, German, Spanish, Swedish, who feel alien when going back to their home country but who don’t feel Belgians either.

“We are like bacteria” a friend of mine said lately. “Only the strongest come here and survive, the ones with the most of determination. “Ah?”. “Yeah, think of all the crazy, confused, enormously independent people escaping their national countries for whatever reason to find their luck in Brussels. Living a life of a nomad. It takes willpower to do that”.

Bacteria…I smiled and thought about my own journey and the good and surreal things that I have encountered  here…

TO BE CONTINUED
LaFritte is a blogger for Bruxpat. Conceived somewhere in the East-south, born somewhere in Eastern Europe, raised in the middle of Central Europe, she stranded on the Western shore of this continent a couple of years ago. She loves Belgian imperfections, the fact that everybody seem to be permanently stuck in an identity crisis, creative chaos and the rare sunny spells that occasionally fall on this country.  When this happens Brussels transforms itself completely turning into one of the most vibrant places - which reminds her why she is still living here.

Friday 11 November 2011

Life from the EC: new job, the greatest bonanza?

By guest blogger The Chained Servant.

D’abord, on vous donne votre badge. Vous êtes fiers et un peu anxieux. Une fois obtenu le précieux sésame qui doit faire de vous un bureaucrate professionnel, vous gagnez votre immeuble, celui où vous allez passer une majeure partie de vos prochaines années et peut être du reste de votre vie. Finalement, on entre et cette fois, c’est pour de bon, on fait partie de la maison, un cerbère inspecte votre badge avec votre nom, votre photo et votre ruban bleu, le numéro d’identification à cinq chiffres est bien visible. 
Mi- inquiet, mi- excité, on est conduit à son bureau par une assistante pressée. Le chemin est long et monotone. Le long de couloirs tous identiques, les bureaux succèdent aux bureaux, de petites boîtes grises succèdent à de petites boîtes grises. On est frappé par l’uniformité morne d’un interminable corridor et la laideur d’un costume que l’on croise en pressant le pas. Partout flotte cette odeur sirupeuse de mauvais parfum et d’after shave bon marché.  Peu importe, vous n’êtes pas là pour travailler dans la mode, n’est ce pas ? Non, ce que vous allez faire, même si vous ne le savez pas encore, est bien plus important, paraît-il.
Ca y est, on découvre son bureau : il est gris, froid et petit. Il donne sur une autre rangée de petites boîtes toutes identiques à la vôtre. La lumière est absente mais heureusement des néons blafards sont là pour vous offrir un peu de chaleur glacée. Pas de souci, vous avez un idéal à faire partager, vous êtes là pour faire progresser une idée généreuse et magnifique, vous êtes motivé et prêt à tout donner pour faire triompher vos idées et vous faire remarquer. Vous êtes jeune et plein d’ambitions. Tant pis si la petite boîte dans laquelle on vous a placé n’est pas très accueillante, tant pis si le téléphone ne fonctionne pas, tant pis si votre connexion internet est inaccessible car vous n’avez pas les trois mots de passe nécessaires, tant pis si votre bureau est nu, vous n’avez pas même de quoi écrire, tant pis si votre chef, en tout cas, celui qui devra jouer ce rôle, est en vacances et que vous ne savez toujours pas quelles tâches vous allez devoir accomplir.
La semaine suivante, après avoir vaincu les premiers obstacles, envoyé quinze messages pour obtenir que le téléphone fonctionne, rempli trois documents différents pour obtenir vos droits à la caisse d’assurance maladie, lu un manuel incompréhensible pour obtenir vos trois mots de passe, découvert la clef qui mène à l’armoire presque vide des fournitures de bureaux, vous être équipé de petits dossiers cartonnés jaunes, verts et bleus et finalement rempli d’autres formulaires administratifs pour obtenir de l’aide car votre fenêtre ne parvient pas à s’ouvrir et que vous étouffez … vous commencez. Tremble le monde ! Un bureaucrate arrive, plein de fougue et d’espoir !
Mais très vite, vous auriez préféré ne jamais avoir trouvé le chemin de l’intranet, vous priez pour que le téléphone n’ait jamais fonctionné et vous imaginez un monde où les petits dossiers cartonnés de couleur jaune, verte et bleue seraient restés à l’ombre de leur armoire. Car ces couleurs, bientôt, vous font vomir, les petits dossiers cartonnés s’accumulent en un ouragan sur votre bureau ; votre chef qui n’est pas beaucoup plus là qu’avant parvient néanmoins à vous faire parvenir une multitude de nouveaux dossiers à traiter ; des collègues vous appellent en hurlant car vous n’avez pas respecté la procédure. Vous tentez de leur expliquer que vous êtes nouveau et que vous croyiez bien faire mais non, vous n’êtes qu’un petit rivet d’une grande machine et chaque rivet a un rôle bien précis, qu’aucun autre rivet ne doit vouloir s’accaparer. Vous le comprenez mais un peu tard. Beaucoup de rivets se sont déjà plaints de vous. Vous ne respectez pas les procédures ! Mais quelles procédures, vous lisez et relisez le manuel de procédures mais vous n’avez plus de temps, les petits dossiers jaunes, verts et bleus s’empilent et demandent à être traités…tout de suite… Une gigantesque bacchanale de papier a lieu sur votre bureau, les petits dossiers cartonnés ne cessent de s’accoupler et de se reproduire. Vous croyez même les entendre rire tandis qu’ils se multiplient en un spectacle obscène. 
Les coups de fils succèdent aux coups de fil, les hurlements succèdent aux hurlements… Votre chef part en week-end un vendredi vers 14h00 en n’oubliant pas de vous laisser quelques dossiers urgents qu’il n’a pas eu le temps de traiter, il est tellement occupé. Mais vous ne savez pas quelle est la procédure pour ces dossiers, damnation… vous êtes perdu car sans procédure, vous ne pouvez rien faire. La procédure est la pierre angulaire de toute administration, garante absolue de l’efficacité, elle régit et commande tout et tout le monde. Mais vous ne la connaissez pas, vous ne la maîtrisez pas, vous ne la comprenez pas. Tout sera donc à refaire mais vous n’avez pas le temps, personne n’est là pour signer l’autorisation qui vous permettra de parvenir à la prochaine étape de la procédure.  La grande machine est bloquée, le dossier ne peut plus avancer, vous avez besoin d’air mais la fenêtre ne s’ouvre toujours pas, vous êtes soudain bien seul dans votre petite boîte grise sous la lumière blafarde du néon.
Mais tant pis, car vous avez un idéal à défendre et vous voulez faire progresser un concept généreux et magnifique,  n’oubliez pas…vous êtes fonctionnaire européen.

The Chain Servant is a blogger for Bruxpat. He has just moved to Brussels. When he is not busy wondering how to escape from his new work at the European Commission, he enjoys reading, cooking and above all cleaning.

The Aperitif Quest: A Bloody Hunting

By guest blogger John Drink Doe.

“A drink is just a drink… a bit of alcohol to alleviate the pain of the daily life.” If this is what you expect from an aperitif after an intense day at work, this is blog is NOT for you.  On the contrary, if a drink is a cozy interlude to share your quest for taste with friends, then you may be on the right path towards bar heaven."  
The international crowd brings to Brussels the richness of diversity. Whether you are a newcomer or a long-time resident you are probably already aware that you won’t have trouble to satisfy your taste. Arabic meze, Napa Valley wine, Oriental delights, Japanese whisky, Mexican fajitas, American burgers, Serbian Rakja, Kosher salami, Turkish Raki, English pudding, Italian buffalo mozzarellas. Nothing is out of reach in Brussels.  However, your quest may get by far more complicated if you are looking for a well manufactured long drink to meet a sophisticated but relaxing atmosphere. Well – at this point – it may get difficult. But since you are reading this blog, you troubles end here.

It is hopping from shop to shop walking down Avenue Louise that just one step away from Place Stephanie, discreetly concealed in the Conrad Hotel you will find one of the local cocktail paradise. “Loui”, a wood and leather urban bar, embraces you with his art pieces and its heterogeneous clientele. It is not only the usual business crowd. It is not the everywhere present European Union officials. It is not only Europeans. It is not only for youngsters as it is not just for older. A place for everyone with sometime to invest in relaxation.

In the footsteps of Lucius Beebe, who for first mentioned the Bloody Mary in a New York City gossip column in 1939, my last visit to Loui was dedicated to this cocktail. Carefully stirred, it scored particularly high on my personal carnet as much as Loui’s warm cigar lounge.

Loui Lounge & Bar 
Avenue Louise 71
1050 Brussels  

John Drink Doe is a blogger for Bruxpat. He is young enough to remember the 80s and old enough to enjoy Lady Gaga. He shares his life with two wonderful Scandinavian girls: the one he married and the one born 3 years ago. When he does not spend tenths of hours working in one of the buildings in Schuman, he enjoys  exploring urban jungles around the planet and writing thriller novels.


Do not miss the next drink!!

Photo by Bruxpat



 

Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing?


In 2011 I have been invited to 7 weddings. Seven! 

For the statistics, one was in Belgium, one in Germany, one in France and four were in Italy. All of them involved intra- European citizens-weddings, but only three of them involved same-nationality partners. I finally attended "only" four, or more precisely four and a half as I missed one due to a fire on the left engine of my plane (so let's consider I half attended as I at least bothered to board and the captain bothered to keep us in the air for over two hours, except that we took off and landed at the exact same airport, but that is a detail). If we then want to really pump up the statistics, then count also my wedding - which I advertized very well but failed to organize (another detail). So that brings us at eight weddings and 2011 is not finished yet and I haven't been invited to Kate and Will's wedding.


Eight weddings I was saying. At this point, I think I am in a good position to share some comments on the institution of marriage and wedding parties.

Marriage. That is something I still do not understand fully. Looking through various dictionaries I found the most different definitions. However they all agree in saying that it is about a contract and implies some festivities. I have been asking to my married friends why did they decide to tie the knot. Have you ever asked? 

For most part I got inconclusive answers - which seemed like they were put up to this against their full will. For the rest I got  a number of valid motivations with very antithetic ethical underpinnings and approaches: 

1) Material-based answer: We wanted to have a big party .
2) Legal-based answer: We wanted to sort out visa problems.
3) Evolutionary-based answer: We thought it was a natural evolution.
4) Feelings-based answer: It was romantic.
5) Security-based answer: It brings the responsibilities to the next level.
6) Social protection-based answer: It covers you up economically.

My personal view on marriage has evolved over time. Until my mid-20s I thought it was a masochist way to kill your own freedom. Although I found the person I wanted to share the rest of my days with, I thought it was completely out of fashion. Then it occurred to me that it might have been something I wanted to consider. In my case it all happened very fast. In 3 weeks time. I was about to leave Brussels for 18 months and move in one of those central African countries few of my friends were able to pinpoint on a map. I was posted in a non-family destination, so no way my partner could follow. Tragic under many different angles, but professionally exciting. As I was the one leaving I thought I had to prove my commitment and came out with two options: get my partner's name tattooed on my arm or ask him to become my husband. I sincerely though the first option was very romantic and artistic but my 3 best friends advised against it - basically they thought that was a BAD, bad idea. Which left me with the second option. So I did propose, in front of the Taj Mahal, and he did accept (actually he proposed pretty much at the same time but I had 1 minute of advance). All well, all romantic. So how comes that 11 months after I am still not married? How comes? 

Have YOU ever tried to organize a wedding? I naively thought it was about love but once more I was wrong. It is about the worst nightmare of your life. It is about writing up a list of friends and having to erase half of them, it is about bringing two families together and agree on what you might think are details but then turn out to be life-or-death decisions. It is about negotiating, getting bothered and make irreconcilable compromises. And it all costs a lot of money. How did it end? I never moved from Brussels, we never got married and probably won't do that till 2045 and yes friends and family are still constantly asking for a date. I have turned from a bride to be into an eternal fiancee. After all, Minnie wasn't Mickey Mouse's eternal girlfriend? I think they lived happy ever after.

That is to say I am not against the institution of marriage, I just think it is too much for me. Which makes me think that I am lucky as at least I have the possibility to decide whether I want get married or not. Have you ever thought about the sad reality that marriage across Europe - not to say on planet earth- seems to be the exclusive right of heterosexuals?

What is all this fuss around homosexual marriage, I do wonder? Why my gay friends cannot get married if they wish so? As an American humorist once said: "It’s very dear to me, the issue of gay marriage. Or as I like to call it: ‘marriage.’ You know, because I had lunch this afternoon, not gay lunch. I parked my car; I didn’t gay park it." Don't you think? Since 2003, Belgium has legally recognized same sex marriage. To me that is not a matter of being progressive, 'tolerant' (!) or open-minded. It is about equal rights for all. At the time, Belgium was the second country in the world to take this step. That is one of the (many) reasons why I am most proud that Belgium is my chosen home.

Enough for marriage, but what about wedding parties? Uoahh let's open the Pandora box! I have been to posh weddings, Protestant weddings, country-style weddings, Jewish-weddings, bad taste weddings, Catholic weddings, big-fat weddings, alternative weddings. From splurge to budget weddings the only thing I learned is that throwing a party shall not mislead you. After all is about love and joy and that is what you will remember. If you are about to organize your own wedding party, and about to get crazy here the only two tips I feel to share:
1. Keep your sense of humor, go to a book shop and have a look at: "Scenes from an Impeding Marriage. A Prenuptial Memoir" by cartoonist Adriane Tomine .
2. Find inspiration and get lost in this fab blog: Once Wed

From Adriane Tomine
And you, what do you think about the wedding's circus?


PS This post title comes from a quote from Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Potemkine bar, welcome in boboland


I am a St-Gilloise and I love that part of the city. I could not live anywhere else if you asked me. St-Gilles has many souls, it is at the same time beautiful and ugly, rich and poor dirty and immaculate clean. Above all St-Gilles is "bobo". 

What the heck is bobo you might wonder? In the words of David Brooks, the author of "Bobos in Paradise: The New Upper-Class and how They got There": (...) if you take bourgeois and bohemian and you smash them together, you get the ugly phrase bobo. The New York Times commented that those are "two social castes no one ever expected to find mixed up together".

To me, Bobos are 30s something relatively well off people that are environmental friendly, shop in open air markets, goes where the cultural vibes brings them, believe they are alternative, love their cachemire scarf, pay attention to the decor of their house but buy in popular areas, rely extensively on technologies, generously reproduce themselves despite Malthusian theories and are fan of unconventional education for their kids - what my conservative mum would define "wild". As my boyfriend once put it, there would not have been bobo without the 70s hippies baba cool and the 80s yuppies. 

St-Gilles is more bohemian around the Parvis and more bourgeois as you get closer to Louise, and the Poteminke bar is the "bobohood". It opened back in June 2011 and it is another successful project of Frederick Nicolay - the guy behind Café Belga, Bar du Matin and Walvis. It is set just in front of Porte de Hal, in a grand room decorated with wood, 1950s furniture, a giant reproduction of a whale skeleton by artist Vincent Glowinski and a beautiful piano. On the backyard there is a small terrace and on the first floor a mini cinema sitting up to 20 people. You can have drinks, listen to one of the many concerts, have breakfast or brunch, watch some old movies for free, work on your computer or just read the papers. 


Or you can watch the customers ranging from artists, corporate lawyers, gay couples, young families with children or older St-Gilloises. Check out the article Le Soir published on the Potemkine to have another view.

Potemkine
Avenue de la Porte de Hal 2-4
1060 Brussels

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Hallo world!

Ask anyone about Brussels and chances are that you will hear (in random order) one of those words: rain, chocolate, grey, beer, EU. Yes, it rains quite often here, yes chocolate and beer are extremely good, yes grey is dominant, and yes the EU is all around -  I suppose even in the oxygen you breath.

But I am not starting this blog to write above all the above. Instead, I want to share bits and pieces of the life of a Brussels expats, which is made of rain, chocolate, grey, beer, EU...and MUCH, MUCH more, one post at time! 

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P. alias Bruxpat